What discoursers think is the toxic threat to the community: aces and aros who feel othered, different, and discriminated against from straight people and seek community, support, and safety
People who are actually toxic in the community that they ignore to spend all their time witch hunting a-specs: TERFs, transphobes, nbphobes, truscum, pan/biphobes, misogynistic gay men, cis drag queens, intersexists, racists, culturally appropriative people, bianarists, and ableists.
But yea, I’m sure its ALL about how “safe” our community is, not at all about power, policing, respectability politics, assimilation, or anything else 😒😒😒